Media Overview – The Secret Life of Fathers (2nd Edition)

THE SECRET LIFE OF FATHERS (2nd Edition)

From Intimate Interviews with 101 Fathers of Daughters

An Unexpected Guide to Understanding MEN… and Fathers

James I. Bond
The Father-Daughter Project™
www.TheFatherDaughterProject.com

Thousand Oaks, California
jbond@TheFatherDaughterProject.com
805.405.9899

 

A Daughter’s Influence Over Her Father
Is More Profound Than Most People Realize

Fathers Montage

Ideas for Media Stories

The Secret “Power” Women Have Over Their Fathers (Often Without Realizing It)

 

Are Men Brain Damaged at Birth… and Could Having a Daughter Be the Antidote –
A Rarely-Mentioned Quirk in a Man’s Brain that is Responsible for Sabotaging Relationships (and How Daughters May Repair it, in an Unexpected Way)

 

How Ivanka Trump Has More Power Over Her Father Than Most People Realize

 

Is a Woman’s Happiness Linked to Her Father?

 

Parenting – How Being Father to a Daughter Is More Complicated than Most People Realize

 

Some Recent Interviews

SELECTED RADIO INTERVIEWS

 

“The Ed Tyll Show” — Ivanka Trump’s Power Over Her Father — on the Starcom Syndicated Radio Network

“Help! My Mid-life Sucks!” – with Lori Dean — The Secret Life of Fathers — on Boost Radio Network

 

“Let’s Talk” – with Bianca & Phillip on WGCH 1490AM (Greenwich, Connecticut)

February 3, 2014 Broadcast from Bianca on Vimeo.

 

Scroll Down — to Listen to More Interviews

 


 

Sample Interview Questions

JAMES I. BOND, author of THE SECRET LIFE OF FATHERS (2nd Edition)
– An Unexpected Guide to Understanding MEN… and Fathers

 

FATHER-DAUGHTER

-How are Dads of daughters different than other Dads of sons?

-Would you say that Guys that have Daughters are different kinds of guys?

-What’s something Fathers don’t understand about their Daughters?

-This is an obvious question but — why do Dad’s understand sons so much better?

-In the Fathers you talked to — what were tough questions for them to answer about their relationship with their Daughters?

-What do Dad’s HATE discussing with their girls? (i.e. sex?, health?, money?, dating?)

-What were the biggest eye openers when you started to talk to Dads of Daughters?

-What tips do you have for Guys listening who want to raise healthy Daughters?

 

Additional Topics:
ARE MEN BRAIN DAMAGED, and COULD DAUGHTERS BE THE ANTIDOTE?
THE SECRET POWER DAUGHTERS HAVE OVER THEIR FATHERS

Where did you get the idea for a book on fathers?

What makes FATHERS of daughters different from other guys?

Are men really brain-damaged?

How does the brain-damage affect men?

What emotions do men have the most difficulty with?

Why is a daughter different from other women?

How does a man change once he has a daughter?

Are all men affected the same way?

 

What about famous dads? (Churchill, Mark Twain, Martin Luther King, Jr., Trump)
(Supreme Court Justices, CEOs, U.S. Presidents)

Would John Lennon have been different with a daughter?

 

Did you interview any women?

How are women affected by their fathers?

 

In your interviews, what was the toughest question for guys to answer?

What’s the biggest lesson from doing the interviews? (90 Seconds)

What was the biggest surprise?

 

Where can our audience go for more information? (30 Seconds)

 

QUICK BIO of AUTHOR / GUEST JAMES I. BOND

  • James I. Bond is an award-winning behavioral management specialist and author of “The Secret Life of Fathers (2nd Edition),”  An Unexpected Guide to Understanding MEN… and Fathers.
    He has written for Forbes.com and appears as a frequent radio talk show guest.
  • Founder of The Father-Daughter Project™
  • Author of The Secret Life of Fathers (2nd Edition)
  • Past President of Leadership Management Associates of California, Inc., a leading behavioral management firm working with **major organizations
  • Regional Leader for The Mankind Project
  • Past Ad Agency President in Canada

 

  • Father of a son and three daughters (in their 30’s)
  • Lives in Thousand Oaks, CA with his wife Pam of 40 years

 


 

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AUDIENCE

+WOMEN wanting to improve their relationship with their dad — or — wanting a powerful and unexpected way to increase their happiness and success in life while improving how they relate to men.

+MEN curious about the misunderstandings women have about what men are “really” like (what fathers of daughters show us about what men are really like).

But also, men who are interested in understanding how deeply a woman’s father has affected her self-image and how she interacts with men… how understanding that could help a guy’s relationships with women.

+PARENTING – for FATHERS of Daughters – wanting a (more) positive relationship with their daughters and a much happier life as a result,

See the short (parenting) Book Trailer Video (2 minutes):
http://thefatherdaughterproject.com/new-father-book-for-fathers-of-daughters/

 

Do you really know your dad?

How would your life be different if you knew what he was really like?

Welcome to “The Secret Life of Fathers” …what fathers of daughters teach us about what dads are really like beneath their carefully guarded image.

Whether she realizes it or not, a woman learned much about what men are “really” like, and how she fits into a world mostly run by men, by watching and listening to the first man in her life, her father.

But what if she missed something? What if there are secrets buried deep that most men will not share… secrets that could change a woman’s entire understanding of what men (and her own dad) are “really” like?

In this lively discussion, behaviorist James I. Bond will take your audience on his incredible journey of discovery, into a world rarely seen by women—the private fears and feelings of men (as experienced through the eyes of fathers with daughters).

Through all this, your audience will discover unexpected ways a woman’s self-image and how she interacts with men have been molded by the relationship she’s had with her own father.

Most importantly, your audience will learn how hundreds of women have opened the door to unexpected happiness, often for the first time in their lives, by using these powerful secrets in their own life.

As a bonus, your audience will also find out where they can get their own personal copy of the book, “7 Questions Every Woman Needs to Ask Her Father,” absolutely free!


~ See the Father-Daughter Project video – Dads Talk to their Daughters About Sex” (2:41 minutes):

 

~ See the Official video-trailer #2 for the book, “The Secret Life of Fathers” (1:12 minutes):

 

~ See the Official video-trailer for the book, “The Secret Life of Fathers” (32 seconds):

 

 

THE SECRET LIFE OF FATHERS – 2nd Edition (Amazon.com)

 


 

Listen to Some Recent Interviews

Radio Interview for The Secret Life of Fathers book on Boost Radio Network "Help! My Mid-life Sucks!" - with Lori Dean

Radio Interview for The Secret Life of Fathers book on WGCH 1490AM "Let's Talk" - with Bianca & Phillip (Greenwich, Connecticut)

February 3, 2014 Broadcast from Bianca Tyler on Vimeo.


Radio Interview for The Secret Life of Fathers book on HealthyLife.net Radio Network (content syndicator to 58 stations) - with Sharkie Zartman

Radio Interview for The Secret Life of Fathers book on WGN Radio 720 - with Bill Leff (Chicago's major sport's and talk radio station)

Radio Interview for The Secret Life of Fathers book on WLEA AM 1480 - with Kevin Doran (Upstate New York)

Radio Interview for The Secret Life of Fathers book on the Rude Awakening Show (Ocean City, Maryland)



 

CONTENTS:

1. Book Reviews

2. Author Overview / Founding of The Father-Daughter Project™ and Mission Statement

3. Audiences for this book

4. Book Excerpts and Facebook Samples

5. Website

6. Sample Interview Questions

7. Contact Info

 

Request PDF of Book Interior “The Secret Life of Fathers”

Download PDF of Book Covers (front and back)

 



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1. Book Reviews

~ BOOK: The Secret Life of Fathers, from Intimate Interviews with 101 Fathers of Daughters

Help us change lives…starting with yours!

 



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2. Author Overview

James I. Bond, Founder of The Father-Daughter Project

~ ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

James I. Bond is founder of The Father-Daughter Project™ (www.TheFatherDaughterProject.com), which was established to strengthen the relationships between fathers and daughters. He is also the author of the highly acclaimed book, “The Secret Life of Fathers” (From Intimate Interviews with 101 Fathers of Daughters).

James has been a behavioral management specialist for more than 20 years, having worked with many of America’s largest organizations. He has also been in regional leadership for The Mankind Project (MKP), a non-profit men’s training and personal development organization.

Most significantly, he’s the father of a son age 31 and three daughters age 21 through 28. As he explains it, “I’m a father-in-training. I haven’t quite gotten it right yet, but I’m trying.”

James and his wife Pam of 35 years reside in Thousand Oaks, California.

 

ABOUT THE FOUNDING OF THE FATHER-DAUGHTER PROJECT™:

For fourteen years, James I. Bond was president of a training and human development company, serving many of the world’s largest organizations. His firm was a pioneer in using behavior management to accelerate human development (getting people to change their lives by altering a few of their habit patterns).

He had also been involved with The Mankind Project (MKP), a non-profit men’s training and personal development organization, which helped him better understand many of the issues and blockages that prevent men (and dads) from having better relationships with women and daughters.

Eventually, James discovered his own relationship with Lauren, one of his three daughters, was not as close as he thought. The focus on his career combined with an indefinable barrier had somehow prevented him from being closer to her.

James wondered if other dads were as clueless as him about their relationships with their daughters. So, he set out to ask dads across the U.S. and Canada about their own experiences and discoveries of being father to a daughter. Through the wisdom and experience of other dads, he hoped it would help him better understand what was going on between his own daughter and himself.

Ultimately, 101 fathers of daughters agreed to be interviewed on recorded calls, covering about two-hours of highly personal questions.

What James discovered from these interviews was more profound than anything he could have imagined. The quotes and stories from these dads became the seed that launched The Father-Daughter Project™ — as a means for dads and daughters to ask and answer these questions:

      • How has my relationship with my dad or daughter “really” affected me?
      • How do I strengthen my relationship with my own dad or daughter? and
      • How can I help others do the same?

The quotes and stories from the interviews with these dads also became the basis for the book, “The Secret Life of Fathers” as a way to listen in as men chat with other men about a subject rarely discussed–the private fears and feelings of father of daughters.

 

THE MISSION OF THE FATHER-DAUGHTER PROJECT™:

We believe the world will become more caring and compassionate by improving the relationships between fathers and daughters of all ages. We also believe that when a father and a daughter better understand their impact on each other, this can lead to greater happiness, health and success in surprising and profound ways, for both dads and daughters.

Through our highly acclaimed book, “The Secret Life of Fathers” (from Intimate Interviews with 101 Fathers of Daughters), as well as the numerous activities and events highlighted throughout The Father-Daughter Project’s website and resources, positive relationships between dads and daughters can be strengthened, providing an unexpected means for greater happiness and success.

 



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3. Audience for this Book

~ AUDIENCE: There are 3 specific audiences for the book, “The Secret Life of Fathers”:

+WOMEN wanting to improve their relationship with their dad — or — wanting a powerful and unexpected way to increase their happiness and success in life while improving how they relate to men. www.TheSecretLifeOfFathers.com

+MEN curious about the misunderstandings women have about what men are “really” like (what fathers of daughters show us about what men are really like).

But also, men who are interested in understanding how deeply a woman’s father has affected her self-image and how she interacts with men… how understanding that could help a guy’s relationships with women.

+PARENTING – for FATHERS of Daughters – wanting a (more) positive relationship with their daughters and a much happier life as a result,

See the short (parenting) Book Trailer Video (2 minutes):
http://thefatherdaughterproject.com/new-father-book-for-fathers-of-daughters/

 


~ OUR MISSION: FOR WOMEN and DAUGHTERS – Greater happiness and success in life!

I believe most women have no idea how much their self esteem and how they interact with men throughout their life is affected by their father. I hope to change all that while giving women awareness and tools to help improve their ability to find happiness and success in life, far beyond what many may have believed possible.

~ OUR MISSION: FOR MEN – Better relationships with women!

I believe most men don’t fully understand why women act the way they do… the subtle and not-so-subtle impact fathers have on a woman’s self-image and the way she interacts with men. I hope to change all that while giving guys an awareness of the most common misconceptions women have about what men are “really” like.

~ OUR MISSION: FOR FATHERS – Healthier happier daughters!

I believe most dads have no idea how much they affect their daughter’s self esteem, how she interacts with men throughout her life, and even her ability to find happiness and success. I hope to change all that while showing some of the powerful and magical things that happen when a man is a father to a daughter.

 



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4. Book Excerpts and Facebook Samples

SHORT VIDEOS

OFFICIAL VIDEO TRAILER:

~ VIDEO #1: Official video trailer for the book, The Secret Life of Fathers:
http://youtu.be/tAmupTRBqy8

 

DADS TELL WHAT IT’S LIKE…

~ FUNNY VIDEO: Dads tell about discomfort talking to their daughter about… SEX…
http://youtu.be/ccvsUYENqPw

~ Dads tell how strange it is for a guy, having a daughter…
http://youtu.be/WHJvi5Eu0fU

~ A Dad’s pain at having a Daughter with alcohol and drug problem – she’s finally clean for 7 years!
http://youtu.be/KPjqyGHV5JE

~ A Dad almost loses his premature Daughter…
http://youtu.be/TSTMQAy1v3g

 

FATHERHOOD / PARENTING VIDEO:

~ BOOK OVERVIEW – Secret Life of Fathers – a Great Book on Parenting for Dads:
http://youtu.be/LugijSRVxGo

 

BOOK AND FACEBOOK EXCERPTS

~ ABOUT THE BOOK, “THE SECRET LIFE OF FATHERS”: Here for the first time you get to eavesdrop on 101 real fathers of daughters as they talk about a subject rarely discussed–the private fears and feelings of fathers of daughters.

Sometimes incredibly funny, sometimes profoundly sad, but always real… this has been described as one of the best training manuals ever for understanding what men are “really” like, by observing fathers of daughters.

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Facebook Link: http://www.facebook.com/FatherDaughterProject

Request a PDF of the book’s interior “The Secret Life of Fathers”

 

 



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5. Website

~ Website: http://thefatherdaughterproject.com/

 



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6. Sample Interview Questions

SAMPLE INTERVIEW QUESTIONS

  1. So James…
    Where did you get the idea for a book on fathers? (Answer Takes 90 Seconds)
  2. How are fathers different than other guys? (1 Minute)
  3. Did you interview any women? (30 Seconds)
  4. What’s something women don’t understand about fathers? (90 Seconds)
  5. For guys, how’s a daughter different than other females? (1 Minute)
  6. What was the toughest question for guys to answer? (1 Minute)
  7. What’s the biggest lesson from doing the interviews? (90 Seconds)
  8. What was the biggest surprise? (1 Minute)
  9. So, how does a woman improve the relationship with her father? (30 Seconds)
  10. Where can our audience go for more information? (30 Seconds)

 

 



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7. Contact Info

James I. Bond
The Father-Daughter Project™
www.TheFatherDaughterProject.com

Thousand Oaks, California
jbond@TheFatherDaughterProject.com
805.405.9899

 

 

 

 

 

Links to Review Sites:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2013/12/23/7-ways-your-father-affected-your-career/#38ae005f31d7

https://readersfavorite.com/book-review/the-secret-life-of-fathers

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-secret-life-of-fathers-the-father-daughter-project/1126970024?ean=9780998865706&st=PLA&sid=BNB_DRS_Core+Shopping+Books_00000000&2sid=Google_&sourceId=PLGoP78860

https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/739521

https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7460809.James_I_Bond

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35449988-the-secret-life-of-fathers-2nd-edition—updated-with-new-sections-adde

https://writersthesaurus.com